img-20160619-wa00052016 like many years in the past, has been full of interesting moments. A lot of growth and new experiences. They haven’t all been pleasant, to be honest.

Writing today’s post is actually proving quite difficult for me, why? Well, for a number of reasons, I guess one would be that it’s not something I am sure I have dealt with in its entirety, so I cant even be sure how this post will progress or even end.

I don’t know who this word is for, but I know it is for someone, because I’m pretty sure  lot of people have been in this position before and need a bit of encouragement.

The year is coming to an end, I mean, like play like play 2016 is almost over, and the time has come to let go and forgive those people. You now the ones I’m talking about. The one’s that hurt you, the ones that used you, lied to you, took advantage of you…

Sure, its probably not what you wanted to hear and it’s probably something you’re hesitant to do. And chances are you’re not even sure why its so hard, but you see, the time has come.

You need to forgive and let go of the hurt. It’s not just for their benefit,but for yours too. Holding unto the hurt inflicted by people is one of the easiest ways to stop  yourself from moving forward. It paints the way you see life and often times its stops you from doing things you would love to do simply because of past hurts.

So my word for you today is this, the time has come to let go of the hurt that has been inflicted on you by friends and family. The time has come to put those things aside. Its not easy, I wont lie about that, but its necessary.


So, today, in the midst of everything thing that has happened this year, I am thankful for everyone that has hurt me. I am thankful for all the pain I’ve had to go through this year, all the unpleasant situations. It hasn’t been fun, but it’s over, I have learnt and I have grown, and so I am thankful.

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